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A Story of a Sex Addict’s Daughter

Sex Addicts

*Permission was granted by the following individual to share her story. Her name has been changed to protect her identity.  For Jo, her father’s absence in her life was profound. He wasn’t physically absent.  But, he was not present.  He was an empty shell and Jo felt a wide divide separating them with no way to cross. […]

Wish You Had More Intimacy in Your Marriage? Part 2

Mother and child

This video, “A Bugs Life” can tell us a lot about love.  “BUGS! What do BUGS have to do with love!?”  Watch this video and see if you can figure out how. A Bugs Life (1998) – don’t look at the light! You might be thinking, “I’m still not sure how watching bugs can can […]

Spiritual Fatherhood

John Paul II wrote about spiritual motherhood which means nurturing others’ spiritual, emotional , moral, and cultural life.  As a psychologist specializing in attachment, I see spiritual motherhood as the essence of healthy attachment caregiving. I was reading about spiritual motherhood about the same time gangs of teenagers were terrorizing many areas throughout London.  I […]

Is Your Pornography Habit a Problem?

shame of sex addiction

Viewing pornography has skyrocketed with the internet.  No longer does one have to walk up to a counter and purchase an adult magazine or video with a real, live human being, all the while worrying about being seen. The internet has made it easy. In 2003, a conference of Matrimonial Lawyers cited pornography addiction as […]